Should I move in with my boyfriend when my parents disapprove?

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Mamma, I’m deeply in love with my boyfriend (we’ve beendatign for three months) and I want to move in with him. But my parents are throwing a fit about me “living in sin”. What should I do?

You don’t say how old you are. If you are underage then Mom and Dad still have some say and you have to listen. Even if you are an adult of whatever age it doesn’t hurt to listen to what they have to say and why. They may make some valid points. You are the one who has to live your life and live with whatever consequences may come but they are a part of your life and they raised you. Morally you have to make that decision too and that is a big decision as well. You have to think is that something you can live with or will it ultimately bother you and affect the relationship if you live together. Are you reacting from the heart only or thinking about it from all aspects? You have to look at the whole picture to make a good decision. Don’t jump into something like that without thinking about all the repercussions and the realities. It is possible to fall in love deeply that quickly but it might be better to wait a little longer and see how you two fare together before making that huge step. That is a big change for both of you. If this relationship is meant to be then it won’t matter if you have to wait a little more to live together. Three months is not a long time to know each other. You might try going and talking to a friend or two who know you and your situation in real life better and see what they have to say about it. They may be able to give you more constructive guidance that deals with your specific scenario. Mama Nono

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