How Can I Tell If A Guy Likes Me?

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I really like this guy but i don’t know if he likes me back. He’s so nice to me. When i am upset, he would try to find ways to cheer me up and he gets mad when i don’t ask him for help, if i need one.

Child, most women would kill and maim for a situation like yours. From what you are telling me, this man is so nice to you, he works to find ways to cheer you up when you’re blue or upset, and he gets “mad” when you don’t ask for a helping hand when you need one. I suppose I’m wondering…why do you even need to ask me that question?

You writing to me can mean one of two things…either that you are wanting confirmation that this fellow is exactly what he appears to be, or that you are waiting for the other shoe to drop. There are a lot of unknowns in the equation for me: How long have you known this guy? Is he consistently this way? And does he have brothers just like him that I may introduce neighborhood young women to??

Now, seriously though…Do you think this man is merely being kind to be “kind?”  (and all women know what that means.) Are you unsure about his ultimate intentions? Let me tell you what I tell all my kids. If you don’t know something, ASK. Talk with him. Be honest about what you are feeling. What is the worst that you are risking here? From your letter, you say that you “like” him; this leads me to believe that you like him in a romantic way. Are you concerned that he may not return that sentiment?

Honey, how are you ever going to know the answer to any of these questions if you don’t ask the primary person involved? I’d love to have a crystal ball and be consistently psychic, but I’m not. The only person who has the power to address this issue is you. No more wondering!

Now, get to it. Find out if he is harboring romantic feelings for you as well. My gut instinct says that he is.

Please come back and let me know how “the talk” went!! Granny’s always glad to see you.

Love, Granny

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